Here is some advice and I want you to listen to it very, very closely:
If they don't want to be with you now, they will not want to be with you later on. You should not stand at the doorway of any person and beg to be let in. You should never dig in your chest, extract your heart and hand it bloody and beating to them, like a dog offering up a possum to his master. If they wanted your heart, they would have broken down the cage of your ribs to get it.
See, love is the strongest current, the greatest force, the heaviest mass that no one has ever been able to measure. It does not see race, distance, age, disability, sexual orientation, gender identity. Love just is- it is all powerful and it is all encompassing. You feel it like hurricane forced winds, 1,000 volts of electricity, a billion newtons.
Love is powered by the heat of the sun and the wax and wane of the moon. Once it is dead, once the sun has cast a shadow over it, there is no reviving in it. You can shine all the sun you want in their heart, but if they do not love you, there is no turning over that engine.It is never going to come out of the shadows and wrap itself around you.
No one is ever "ready" for love, but they know when they want to. No matter how incapable a person might be, if you care about her just a little, and she is not with you, that is because she doesn't want to, not because she cannot for some reason.
Time is precious and there are few people in the world worth waiting for, or maybe there is nobody.
You are spending your entire life being young, gorgeous and talented, but waiting for someone who cannot love you, to do it.
I think it is time to stop this, ok? Sure, you might miss the thrill of the hunt, the excitement of the chase, but one day you are going to look back and realize that the only reason that person kept letting you chase her, was because you made her feel important, special, wanted.
And you deserve to feel that way too, you know?
You deserve it just as much as anyone else.
Maybe even more than the rest.
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Iata un sfat bun si vreau sa il asculti cu atentie:
Daca nu vrea sa fie cu tine acum, nu va dori nici mai tarziu. Nu ar trebui sa stai in fata usii nimanui si sa te rogi de acea persoana ca sa te lase sa intri. Nu ar trebui niciodata sa sapi in pieptul tau, sa iti extragi inima si sa o oferi insangerata si batand unei alte persoane, asemeni unui caine care ii ofera stapanului totul. Daca ar fi dorit inima ta, ar fi spart el/ea colivia unde sta ascunsa inima ta, pentru a o lua.
Vezi tu, dragostea este cel mai puternic curent, cea mai mare forta pe care nimeni vreodata nu a fost capabil sa o masore. Ea nu vede culoarea pielii, distanta, dizabilitatea, orientarea sexuala, identitatea de gen, varsta. Dragostea doar exista; si este foarte puternica si atotcuprinzatoare. O simti asemeni unui uragan, ca si 1,000 de volti de electricitate, un bilion de newtoni.
Dragostea este intretinuta de caldura soarelui si de fazele lunii. O data ce moare, o data ce soarele pune o umbra asupra ei, nu mai poate fi readusa la viata. Poti sa stralucesti tot soarele pe care il vrei tu in inima lui/ei, dar daca nu te iubeste, nu ai ce sa faci. Dragostea lui/ei nu va veni din umbra sa te inconjoare.
Niciodata nimeni nu este "pregatit" pentru dragoste, insa orice om stie ca isi doreste dragoste. Oricat de incapabila ar fi o persoana, daca tu tii macar putin la ea, motivul pentru care nu este cu tine, este pentru ca nu vrea, ci nu pentru ca nu poate.
Timpul este pretios si putini oameni merita sa astepti dupa ei, ba chiar poate nimeni. Iti petreci viata , fiind tanar, frumos, grozav, asteptand pe cineva care nu te poate iubi.
Cred ca este timpul sa te opresti, bine? Desigur, iti va lipsi farmecul vanatorii, placerea de a lupta pentru ceva ce poti obtine greu, dar intr-o zi te vei uita in urma si vei realiza ca singurul motiv pentru care acea persoana te-a lasat sa o vanezi, este pentru ca o faceai sa se simta importanta, speciala, dorita.
Si tu meriti sa te simti asa, stii?
Meriti la fel de mult ca toti ceilalti.
Poate chiar mai mult decat toti ceilalti.
If they don't want to be with you now, they will not want to be with you later on. You should not stand at the doorway of any person and beg to be let in. You should never dig in your chest, extract your heart and hand it bloody and beating to them, like a dog offering up a possum to his master. If they wanted your heart, they would have broken down the cage of your ribs to get it.
See, love is the strongest current, the greatest force, the heaviest mass that no one has ever been able to measure. It does not see race, distance, age, disability, sexual orientation, gender identity. Love just is- it is all powerful and it is all encompassing. You feel it like hurricane forced winds, 1,000 volts of electricity, a billion newtons.
Love is powered by the heat of the sun and the wax and wane of the moon. Once it is dead, once the sun has cast a shadow over it, there is no reviving in it. You can shine all the sun you want in their heart, but if they do not love you, there is no turning over that engine.It is never going to come out of the shadows and wrap itself around you.
No one is ever "ready" for love, but they know when they want to. No matter how incapable a person might be, if you care about her just a little, and she is not with you, that is because she doesn't want to, not because she cannot for some reason.
Time is precious and there are few people in the world worth waiting for, or maybe there is nobody.
You are spending your entire life being young, gorgeous and talented, but waiting for someone who cannot love you, to do it.
I think it is time to stop this, ok? Sure, you might miss the thrill of the hunt, the excitement of the chase, but one day you are going to look back and realize that the only reason that person kept letting you chase her, was because you made her feel important, special, wanted.
And you deserve to feel that way too, you know?
You deserve it just as much as anyone else.
Maybe even more than the rest.
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Iata un sfat bun si vreau sa il asculti cu atentie:
Daca nu vrea sa fie cu tine acum, nu va dori nici mai tarziu. Nu ar trebui sa stai in fata usii nimanui si sa te rogi de acea persoana ca sa te lase sa intri. Nu ar trebui niciodata sa sapi in pieptul tau, sa iti extragi inima si sa o oferi insangerata si batand unei alte persoane, asemeni unui caine care ii ofera stapanului totul. Daca ar fi dorit inima ta, ar fi spart el/ea colivia unde sta ascunsa inima ta, pentru a o lua.
Vezi tu, dragostea este cel mai puternic curent, cea mai mare forta pe care nimeni vreodata nu a fost capabil sa o masore. Ea nu vede culoarea pielii, distanta, dizabilitatea, orientarea sexuala, identitatea de gen, varsta. Dragostea doar exista; si este foarte puternica si atotcuprinzatoare. O simti asemeni unui uragan, ca si 1,000 de volti de electricitate, un bilion de newtoni.
Dragostea este intretinuta de caldura soarelui si de fazele lunii. O data ce moare, o data ce soarele pune o umbra asupra ei, nu mai poate fi readusa la viata. Poti sa stralucesti tot soarele pe care il vrei tu in inima lui/ei, dar daca nu te iubeste, nu ai ce sa faci. Dragostea lui/ei nu va veni din umbra sa te inconjoare.
Niciodata nimeni nu este "pregatit" pentru dragoste, insa orice om stie ca isi doreste dragoste. Oricat de incapabila ar fi o persoana, daca tu tii macar putin la ea, motivul pentru care nu este cu tine, este pentru ca nu vrea, ci nu pentru ca nu poate.
Timpul este pretios si putini oameni merita sa astepti dupa ei, ba chiar poate nimeni. Iti petreci viata , fiind tanar, frumos, grozav, asteptand pe cineva care nu te poate iubi.
Cred ca este timpul sa te opresti, bine? Desigur, iti va lipsi farmecul vanatorii, placerea de a lupta pentru ceva ce poti obtine greu, dar intr-o zi te vei uita in urma si vei realiza ca singurul motiv pentru care acea persoana te-a lasat sa o vanezi, este pentru ca o faceai sa se simta importanta, speciala, dorita.
Si tu meriti sa te simti asa, stii?
Meriti la fel de mult ca toti ceilalti.
Poate chiar mai mult decat toti ceilalti.
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